For century’s the word “Single” has carried a negative stigma
and is often misunderstood even today. However it is a necessary component in
the process of human development. Due to the mass commercialism behind dating and
even marriage being single has become taboo.
How did we get to this place in society where being single
encouraged persecution and taunting? Why is it that in our society we are
taught to idolize couples and pity singles?
I may not be able to answer this question, however it is
definitely worth considering. One cannot deny the beauty, allure, and pure
attraction of being in love with someone who loves you just as much. Whether it’s in music, movies, or books the
concept of single is often portrayed in a negative light. Unfortunately it
allows us to overlook the value of what being single affords us.
Being single is a valuable and necessary part of the human
development process. Like a photo in a dark room waiting to develop or a cake
baking in an oven it allows us to fully develop our individually. Just imagine
the countless amount of marital mistakes that could have been avoided, if some
people would have simply embraced the process. I believe the divorce rate is
high for this very reason. Many of us have yet to discover our authentic
selves. Single people have the freedom to chase ambitious pursuits and work
tireless without the worry of considering someone else’s needs.
When was the last time that you where honest enough with
yourself to say I’m too selfish to date?
Most of us would never admit it but some people are designed
to be single. In closing I would like to
encourage every single out there battling the stress of marking single as a
status on your Facebook profile. Embrace your time of self discover, pursue
your purpose relentlessly, and enjoy the “single” process. After all single
looks good on you.
