The anatomy of the perfect man ?

                               The reason why some women can't find "A REAL MAN"

Most of us have heard of this mythical creature dubbed by many as The unattainable "REAL MAN."
The profile of this mythical character has the traits of a best selling novel compiled with a sprinkle of pixie dust. Perhaps the "IDEAL MAN" or "REAL MAN" doesn't exist but why?

As an opinionist and not an expert, I believe that humanity over complicates relationships. Most of us adopt the influential ideas projected to the masses without ever discovering our true desires. Consider this for a moment it seems easier to want what you think you like instead of desiring what you need. If you don't understand your purpose or have an authentic identity how can you chose the relationships that best propel your life forward successfully?

Pride, arrogance, and ignorance contributes to this ongoing social disruption. There are many agents of disconnection cultivated by humanity. Some of which are bigotry, inequality, sexism, and the misconception of purpose. 

So how do we move forward and end the cycle?
As I said before as a opinionist I don't claim to have all the answers. I do believe however that it starts with sparking the discussion and being accountable for our own actions first. If we start with our issues, problems, and contribution to broken relationships we will discover a broader since of awareness.

It is easier to blame others for our problems rather than acknowledging our faults. This article is in no way designed to anger feminist or feed into the distraction of dividing people further by gender. The goal is to spark a different discussion and bring awareness to the enemies of harmonious human relationships.

“Single” looks good on you!

For century’s the word “Single” has carried a negative stigma and is often misunderstood even today. However it is a necessary component in the process of human development. Due to the mass commercialism behind dating and even marriage being single has become taboo.

How did we get to this place in society where being single encouraged persecution and taunting? Why is it that in our society we are taught to idolize couples and pity singles?

I may not be able to answer this question, however it is definitely worth considering. One cannot deny the beauty, allure, and pure attraction of being in love with someone who loves you just as much.  Whether it’s in music, movies, or books the concept of single is often portrayed in a negative light. Unfortunately it allows us to overlook the value of what being single affords us.

Being single is a valuable and necessary part of the human development process. Like a photo in a dark room waiting to develop or a cake baking in an oven it allows us to fully develop our individually. Just imagine the countless amount of marital mistakes that could have been avoided, if some people would have simply embraced the process. I believe the divorce rate is high for this very reason. Many of us have yet to discover our authentic selves. Single people have the freedom to chase ambitious pursuits and work tireless without the worry of considering someone else’s needs.

When was the last time that you where honest enough with yourself to say I’m too selfish to date?

Most of us would never admit it but some people are designed to be single.  In closing I would like to encourage every single out there battling the stress of marking single as a status on your Facebook profile. Embrace your time of self discover, pursue your purpose relentlessly, and enjoy the “single” process. After all single looks good on you.

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